Johann Wolfgang von Goethe was a German author, playwright, and statesman in the late 1700’s and early 1800’s. Although he studied law, he found himself captivated by the written word, and in particular, poetry. His works included prose, verse, and treatises on a variety of subjects. When pondering about courtesy, his is credited with the following:

“There is courtesy of the heart; it is allied to love. From its springs the purest courtesy in the outward behavior.”

It would appear, according to von Goethe, that courtesy is an outward expression of love. It’s interesting to consider that courtesy might be a product of strong emotion. The expressions that we take for granted and use almost unconsciously might take on an entirely different meaning if we regarded them as outpourings from a full heart.

In a way, it does make sense, though. When we practice courtesy and take that extra moment to appreciate someone with our words or deeds, we are showing esteem and affection which when manifest show considerate action. Our care and consideration are outward signs, courtesies, of the way we esteem each other and our ourselves!

Let’s continue to show our care and concern for those around us through the effective and practical use of courtesy.